| My wife and I recently celebrated our
third wedding anniversary. As often happens at such times in a
man's life, I took some time to sit back and reflect on the past to see
where I had been, where I am and where I hope to be. In doing so,
a single person kept appearing in many of the places I had been.
Especially over the past year. This person is well known to many
of you. I have been loathe to write this story for fear of some
folks taking offense. However, I have been encouraged by many to
take up this task and write about it in explicit detail. So, here
it is............................. In September of the year 2001, I
was to become the final member of a group. It was to be both a
blessing and a curse. On the occasion of my first performance with
this band, I was stopped for speeding in Iroquois County, Illinois.
I didn't have auto insurance at the time and subsequently had my license
suspended until I was able to pay off the ridiculously high fine.
However, after my first wife left me in November of 2001, it was my only
source of income for a couple of months.
Anyway..........................................
I performed with this band through the good times and the bad over
the course of about two 1/2 to 3 years. Performing everyplace from
Starved Rock State Park and the Mendota Sweet Corn Festival to Annie's
in Ashkum. Recriminations grew. Why? Because no one
was booking the band. One of the guitar players broke up with his
girlfriend and turned to beer for comfort. The gigs that did get
booked were attended by one of the guitar players child molester
friends. The other guitar player. Yes, THAT one.
Turned into a little whiner because he never got his way. The gigs
weren't good enough. They didn't pay enough. They weren't in
the right places. They weren't getting us anywhere. BUT, he
wouldn't practice or do anything that took the effort TO get us
anywhere. Pot, kettle, black. Band members grew complacent
and the band went nowhere except extinct.
Fast forward to 2004. A new band was formed from the nucleus of
the old band. We'll call it Band X. This was going to be IT!
The next BIG THING! We were going to take the NW Indiana music
scene by storm! There would be no stopping us! Along with a
female singer, (Who is innocent in this whole scenario and there should
be no aspersions cast upon her in any way.) Band X was off to an
auspicious start. Talented, motivated and energetic, Band X took
off, almost.
Here's where it gets confusing and even a bit, well, infuriating.
I was having car trouble at the time. So, I would ride to the
guitar player's house and from there, either ride with the guitar player
or the drummer. One night, we were scheduled to perform in East
Chicago, Indiana at a place called Murphy's On The Water. For some
reason, I had to drive myself. So, I followed the guitar player.
Could the guitar player take the obvious, easy route?
Noooooooooooooooooooo! He had to take the long and winding road
with all of it's stops and starts. When we arrived at the gig, I
complained that there was a problem with my car. The guitar
player, fancying himself and expert on all things, test drove the car
and said nothing was wrong. (Yeah right!) I made it home,
barely. The transmission had given out. Did the guitar
player find that troubling? No. He found it funny.
Something to laugh about. Just one more misfortune for Curt West.
After obtaining another vehicle, we performed at some lousy sports
bar in Indiana. On the way home, the car acted like it's
transmission had given out as well! WTF!!!!!! What had
happened was that the car had a problem leaking oil. It had
literally run out of oil! Well, I again had to ride to and from
gigs with the drummer or guitar player. The guitar player was less
than understanding about this arrangement. Often complaining about
how unfair it was to him! Well shit! If the positions had
been reversed, I would have done the same for him. (Without
complaining.) He was driving a freaking van! He had plenty
of room. I helped with gas money. I wasn't freeloading for
cryin' out loud!
A situation came up where there was the opportunity to buy a car at a
very low price from one of the guitar player's relatives. I
discussed buying either the relative's car or the guitar player's car if
he took the relative's car with the guitar player. However, when
that deal came through, neither vehicle was offered nor was it mentioned
until after the fact. Help thy band mate? I think not.
For this guy it's all for one and that one is him.
In the meantime, an opportunity arose at a local club. In
October or November of 2004, the house band, of which I was a part, had
a couple of it's members leave under less than happy circumstances.
The owners wanted entertainment to fill the void left by the house
band's break up, but, didn't want a house band. I jumped at the
opportunity and offered two separate bands to perform on Friday nights.
The offer was accepted and I felt quite happy, as I was going to be able
to perform every Friday. If not at this club, then with my new
band, Band X! The ideal circumstance, right? Wrong.
One of the bands I hired in was JD King, myself and whatever drummer
JD decided on. JD would perform on the weeks when Band X's drummer
didn't have his kids for the weekend so that I would be available to
perform with Band X and JD could hire different bass players that he
knew.
The other band was to be a sort of local "super group". Jay
Jackson on guitar, Tom Kyrouac on drums, Band X's guitar player on
guitar and vocals and myself on bass. I would always be able to
perform with this group because my real band couldn't work those
weekends because our drummer had his kids. Perfect! (Not
quite.)
Jay Jackson quit. Ask him why. It's not for me to put on
this web site without his permission.
Tom Kyrouac joined the band Reaction and was only sporadically
available.
What to do. The "super group" had fallen apart before it really
got started. (Not that we ever practiced anyway.)
Several drummers were used over the course of a few months to get us
through. But, what to do about the empty guitar slot? We
tried it three piece, but, that caused it's own share of problems.
Namely, the guitar player had a hard time singing all night. So,
was there an answer? Yes. But, it wasn't my idea.
Bring the guitar player from the old band that wasn't in Band X back
into the band! My response? Ohhhhhhhh shit. On top of
that, the guitar player wanted to call it the old band's name again!
For name recognition he said. Hell! That band had a BAD
reputation! I have to admit I wasn't thrilled about the idea, but,
it did have it's merits. We all knew the material we were
performing. We had all worked together before. Both guitar
players could sing. OK. This would work, right? Wrong.
While all of this is going on, Band X isn't making any money on the
few performances we had. Not to mention the huge expense of
replacing cars every few gigs. Plus, the guitar player was getting
intolerably pushy. He was attempting to take control of the band.
He wanted his hand in everything except booking the band. At the
same time, he wanted everything on his own terms. Practice at his
house, at the hours of his choosing. He wanted to arrange the
songs his way, but, he was making mistakes with the arrangements.
He was singing about half of the show, but, he wouldn't learn the right
lyrics to the songs. Often making up lyrics or combining verses.
I decided to leave Band X and perform closer to home for better money.
Band X was upset that I chose to leave but soldiered on without me.
I took up with what I consider to be the more musically satisfying band,
JD & The Phuzz. Yes, THAT JD. The one performing on the
alternate Fridays from the guitar player from Band X.
I became very busy with JD and, just as I had done for Band X, I took
some Fridays off from performing with the guitar player from Band X.
However, where JD hadn't had a problem with this arrangement, the guitar
player from Band X did. He had a problem to the point where he
tried to get me fired. Oh, the joys of the politics of music!
To be fair, I will describe the guitar player from Band X's problem.
I only gave him four days notice that I wouldn't be at the next
performance. HOWEVER, I did get a replacement for myself and there
was no doubt that the show would go on. Everyone was going to make
their money and nothing except for my presence had changed. I ask
you, what is the problem?
Words were exchanged between Band X's guitar player and myself.
My point was that I had hired him. Not the other way around.
I hired him. That is not my ego talking. That is a statement
of fact. Where did this guy get off trying to have me fired and
have himself put in charge of those Fridays? This guy was even
hiring the drummers for those Fridays without asking or consulting me!
I found out that he had hired the new bass player to perform on a
Friday that I was scheduled to perform! Who in the hell does this
guy think he is? This kind of behavior is expected of kids in
junior high! Not so called professional musicians!
About this time, I had secured enough gigs with JD to be able to back
out of the Fridays he was not performing at this club anyway.
However, I was not going to just allow someone I had hired to do as he
pleased with a gig I had arranged. Hell, that's my money!
So, after a number of hasty phone calls and some incredible political
slight of hand, I made sure that I would be performing at the next two
performances at this club with the guitar player from Band X.
Prior to those two performances, I did as I had agreed upon with the
management of the this club. I informed the guitar player and the
management of this club that I would be turning over those Fridays to
the guitar player because of other commitments. I had agreed that
if I could not be present at half of the performances, that I would
either leave that band and allow them to hire another bassist or, if
they could not find a replacement, the management would hire another
band.
Looking at the above story, and after what I have been through with
this guitar player, I realized that this particular guitar player is a
lazy musician, a bully, a braggart, egotistical, self-centered,
controlling, ignorant and those are just his good qualities!
This guitar player continues to perform at this club every other
Friday with the other guitar player from the old band. It's not
Rich Kienle. It's not Mark Armenta. Who is it then that I
really have a problem with. If you're really smart, and you really
have read the information on this web site and have followed all of the
links, you'll know exactly who I'm talking about. I refrain from
using his name for legal reasons AND he doesn't deserve to have his name
published on this site. |